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Woohoo here we go again!! Hope you've had some time out to clear your mind; some nurturing rest and of course, much fun with friends and family while you waved 2010 goodbye! As the sun rises in the dawn of this brand new year, look ahead to a heavenly 2011 with direction and intention. Be blessed with an abundance of all the great things you desire and the strength and courage to hold you in your truth and keep you optimistic no matter which winds blow your way. Go forward having learnt from your mistakes and take with you the valuable lessons you've learnt. |
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A big THANKS to all you incredible, talented artists who performed under the Sundancer banner last year, and to all those who took part in Earthdance and the Midsummer Festival. You truly sparkle!! Also everyone who helped us launch the V-Spot Faires – a wonderfully worthwhile project. This is just the beginning friends, and there will be lots more to come. A special thanks to my wonderful partner, Stuart and my compassionate friends for being the ears that listened, the arms that held me and the hearts that heard me through my process which started 7 years ago when my Dad first became ill, which turned my world upside down last year, and which is not over yet. 2010 was undoubtedly one of the most difficult years I have gone through, but I have learnt much from this experience - the very foundation of our entire family was shaken and we were all confronted with challenges never imagined. We do not have control over outcomes, and expectations and holding on for dear life inevitably leads to loss – be it loss of face, a loved one, a relationship, material goods, a job …. or whatever. Surrender! Many people last year suffered deep losses. Don’t judge others on how they deal with their grief. You can never really imagine how it is to walk in their shoes and sometimes you simply cannot understand. Just be there for them and, at times, lend a guiding hand allowing them to process in their own time. This is healthy and the way it should be. Strength to all of you who are struggling and remember this too shall pass. Time is precious. Time is sweet. Enjoy what you have now and know that there will be a time for it to go and for a new experience to come into your life. Keep your heart open to release and receive. As the words “Ubuntu and Community” reverberated through this country and the world, so it seems we have been confronted with situations where we have been forced to live together and accept each other’s differences. Appreciate!! Respect!! Take care of mother nature, the rivers and seas, the plants and trees, the animals, birds and bees. Take care of this planet's precious gifts to us. Walk in awareness. According to the Mayan calendar, we have just come through the planetary era that relates to ethics. What I have seen is that, no matter what, the truth shines through and those that don't operate in integrity have been exposed. It’s time to let go of people who are not rooting for your success and fulfillment and who do not nurture and care for you. I had a friend of many years who I thought would be a friend forever. My confidence was crushed and I was blown away and hurt when it was plain to see he didn't care for my wellbeing. To avoid stepping on his toes with elephant feet, I stopped dancing. Can you believe that? And guess what? I found myself in a very stagnant and sad place. I thank you for everything you were in my life and am moving on. Now more than ever we need to respect each other for we all do what we do with the same purpose in mind – to live comfortably and be happy. As we muddle through unchartered territory each day, we should applaud each other and pat each other on the back. Most of all we need to rise above ego, get out of the head and come from the heart. We are all in this together. We are one. Sometimes the road is bumpy, sometimes it seems like impassable terrain and what if you don’t have a 4x4 nor a map? Then stretch out your hand ….. to receive, and, when the wheel turns …. to help. If there is anything I have done to hurt or wrong someone – knowingly or unknowingly, please forgive me. Sometimes we come from such different perspectives, it’s hard to know what others are thinking and sometimes we don’t listen with our hearts and presume what isn’t. Thanks those of you who have been my helping hands, who reminded me and inspired me to keep dancing! Keep the music in your heart You are loved Diana P.S. I want to hear your stories of how 2010 was for you - the challenges, the heartbreaks and the successes. Write to me! Anyone dealing with a member of the family with dementia or a prolonged death situation? The global statistics for dementia are reaching alarming proportions and the impact emotionally and financially on families is startling. I am doing some research on this so if you are affected, please connect with me. At the same time, we can share stories and support each other.
© Diana K. |
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